Are You a Crown?

Are You a Crown?

Welcome!  This meditation is for all believers—men as well as women.

An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones.  (Proverbs 12:4 NKJV)

In this verse, the words excellent wife mean a wife of valorValor means bravery, courage, heroism, boldness, daring, fortitude, nerve, and pluck.  This is one with determination and resolve.  This is a person of honor.

This honorable person’s determination and resolve could be about many different things: 

  • To serve the Lord with joy and gladness (Psalm 2:11; 100:2; Colossians 2:4)
  • To bring only honor and glory to the Name of the Lord (Psalm 66:2; 1 Tim. 1:17; 6:1; Rev. 7:12; 19:1)
  • To be an instrument of peace in all situations (Numbers 6:26; 25:12; Psalm 34:14; 37:37; Prov. 3:17; 12:20; 16:7; Isa. 26:3; Rom. 12:17, 18; 2 Cor. 5:18, 19)
  • To bless their family, friends, and neighbors and not to curse them with their words (Prov. 11:11; Ezek. 34:26; Rom. 15:29; Gal. 3:14; 1 Pet. 3:9; James 3:8-11)
  • To build their home and not to destroy it (Proverbs 14:1)
  • To be hard-working and consistent on behalf of their family (Prov. 31:10-31)
  • To be a light in the darkness (Ps. 112:4; Isa. 58:10; John 8:12; Rom. 13:12; Ephes. 5:8-10)
  • To be a blessing to their spouse (Prov. 31:10-31)
  • To serve their family (Prov. 31:10-31)

This is a beautiful picture of a person of valor who loves the Lord and chooses to live for Him every day.  This person ministers out of the strength that they receive from their relationship with Jesus, their Savior and Redeemer, their Groom—to whom this honorable person is a Crown!  Such a person has a servant’s heart.  

Since the entire body of believers in Christ make up the bride of Christ, ALL Christians should strive to live like this—not only women!  Be blessed and be a blessing today!

Greatness Through Servanthood

Greatness Through Servanthood

Yet it shall not be so with you; but whoever desires to become great among you, let him be your servant.  And whoever desires to be first among you, let him be your slave—just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.  (Matt 20:28)

The word ransom signifies a release from slavery or captivity brought about by the payment of a price.  Jesus willingly provided His own life as a ransom for us—in obedience to His Father’s plan to provide salvation to all mankind.

We have been released from slavery to sin.  We are free now to serve the Lord in holiness, humility and righteousness!

Living a life of true humility means that we direct all glory and praise to God.  We willingly give Him all of the credit for any good things that we may have accomplished in life.  We rejoice in His ways and His truths.  We are glad that in giving God all of the credit, He removes every opportunity for stumbling far from us. 

Truly, what do any of us have that we didn’t receive?  (1 Cor 4:6-7)  Everything that we have is a free gift—whether skills, pedigree, possessions, or wit. 

True greatness—eternal greatness—only comes through serving Christ and our Heavenly Father by the leading of the Holy Spirit.  Happily, we have free will so that we may make the choice to serve the Lord of Glory.  Hallelujah!